What effort is required to have a field full of thistles or weeds? None at all! By simply allowing it to be untended or uncultivated, weeds take over, and fill that field with undesirable growth. However, developing a beautiful field of roses takes much purposeful effort. You must remove the weeds, cultivate the soil with nutrients and water, plant and maintain roses as they blossom and grow. Hard work, yes! But the beauty that results makes your efforts worthwhile.
Our minds are much like an empty field. Undergoing relentless reviling and covert psychological attacks can quickly fill our minds with negative thoughts, anxieties and despair. Those negative thoughts can quickly take root and overwhelm our thinking, destroying self-esteem, and robbing life of meaning and hope. When others seek to crowd our minds with negative, self-destructive thoughts, do we see such thoughts as weeds that must be uprooted and discarded? How much thought do you give to their weedlike words? Why allow your mind to become a self-destructive field full of thistles?
Filling the mind with cheerful thoughts requires persistent effort. Break through negative feelings by acting the way you want to feel. Do things that make you happy! I find that singing a favorite song or dancing around at home is a great mood lifter that clears out the “weeds” of negative, depressing thoughts. Engage in some positive activity that is sure to bring a smile to your lips. Just don’t be halfhearted about it, set your mind to it!
The Bible provides practical encouragement in this regard: “Finally brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are of serious concern, whatever things are righteous, whatever things are chaste, whatever things are lovable, whatever things are well spoken of, whatever virtue there is and whatever praiseworthy thing there is, continue considering these things.” -Phillipians 4:8
Filling the mind with beauty and positive purpose requires a determined and sustained exercise of willpower, much like cultivating a field of roses. However, doing so can motivate us to positive action, and contributes to personal growth even as we weather adversity. It takes effort and discipline! But look at the beauty that results! Weeding out negative thoughts and daily cultivating a pattern of noble, upbuilding goals and actions allows you to make the best of any adversity. It can spell the difference between success and failure.
If you feel that your life has meaning, you will be energized to respond to that and seek to fulfill it. This is shown in Viktor Frankl’s book Man’s Search for Meaning. He discusses this relative to prisoners he witnessed in Nazi Germany’s concentration camps. Those who had no sense of purpose in their lives succumbed to loneliness and lost the will to live. He observed that “the consciousness of one’s inner value is anchored in higher, more spiritual things, and cannot be shaken by camp life . . . Suffering ceases to be suffering in some way at the moment it finds meaning . . . Man’s main concern is not to gain pleasure or to avoid pain, but rather to see a meaning in his life.”
A truly spiritual outlook comes from knowing God and his Word, the Bible. Faith in God and prayer can give life genuine meaning. Thus, even if human relationships lead to disappointment, we are not alone, not condemned to loneliness. Filling our minds with the knowledge of God provides the most beautiful, comforting and strengthening thoughts of all, and can dispel any sense of isolation or distress caused by psychological attacks.
The poet said it best: Where You Tend A Rose, A Thistle Cannot Grow . . .

